Participants in any dispute seek to prove the point of view that they consider to be true. It is believed that during a civilized dispute one can not insult an opponent and discuss his personality. When discussing a question, you need to understand the problem well.
During the discussion, you need to remember that the problem can be viewed from completely different positions. The dispute helps to understand the objective truth and gather information relevant to it. The discussion can be conducted openly, so that other people who support any point of view can take part in it.
- Participating in polemics, it is necessary to remember that the interlocutor can well understand the discussed problem. Try not to discuss topics in which you have nothing to oppose to convincing arguments. Choose well-known questions, where your position will be supported by theory and facts.
- Usually the participants know about the topic of the dispute in advance, which allows you to find the necessary information and stock up examples from real life. You can act more competently if you become acquainted with the history of the problem and its study by other people. When preparing for a discussion, study not only the arguments that prove your point of view, but also those that are capable of refuting it. So you understand the opponent’s logic and will be able to prepare for an answer to his arguments.
- That your position during the discussion was understandable to others, it is necessary to have a good command of speech. It is necessary not to be afraid of the attention of a large number of people and to be explained to everyone. Try to use Russian-language terms and descriptions more often, so that your arguments are clear and understandable. Persuasive speech may well fail if you use too complicated words and sentences.
- Entering a dialogue with others, behave honestly and do not try to go to deception and substitution of facts. When you are not familiar with certain facts, it is better to just admit it. You can quite recognize the opponent’s rightness on some issues, without setting himself an absolute winner. The purpose of the discussion is to find the truth, not the humiliation of the interlocutor. Remember that people who are versed in all issues simply do not exist. When you are mistaken in something, you need to recognize it, and not try to get out by deception. This behavior during the dispute will show you a good and adequate opponent.
- Do not forget that the discussion involves the emergence of various questions that must be asked. Having studied the arguments of the opponent, you can find in them certain gaps and weaknesses. Instead of talking about these shortcomings, you can ask the appropriate questions to the interlocutor. Thus, he will make a series of mistakes himself, on which it will be possible to draw the attention of others. This approach will allow you to look much more convincing against the background of an opponent who is confused in his words.